In life on this earth we face many challenges, uncertainties, and choices. From scripture discovered in the latter-days we learn that these things are an intended part of our mortal experience:
And there stood one among them that was like unto God, and he said unto those who were with him: We will go down, for there is space there, and we will take of these materials, and we will make an earth whereon these may dwell;
And we will prove them herewith, to see if they will do all things whatsoever the Lord their God shall command them; (Abraham 3:24-25)
Fortunately, God does not abandon us in these things, unless by our own choosing we deny Him. Nevertheless, there is one overarching desire surrounding our desires for finding the solutions to challenges, the knowledge to uncertainties, and making correct choices, and that is the greater desire for comfort, or the assurance that we will make it through.
In the New Testament we read the Savior’s words to his fellow servants regarding a special gift that the Father would send to them specifically for this purpose, even a Comforter. He says:
And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever;
Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.
…the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you. (John 14:16-17, 26)
…when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me. (John 15:26)
Who is the Holy Ghost?
It is interesting to me that the Lord, in many instances in scripture (if not most that reference the Holy Ghost) refers to the Holy Ghost as the Comforter.
Consider what it is that the third member of the Godhead does; how His role and purpose is to satisfy that great desire of which I have spoken. He testifies of Jesus Christ, instructs us in truth and righteousness, brings to remembrance the truths that we in time have come to know, provides us guidance, comforts us in sorrow or grief, and binds the covenants that we establish with God. Ultimately, and in all these things, He effectuates the peace of Jesus Christ and the love of God within us, which bring about an absolute sense of comfort, peace, love, and joy.
Unlike the Father and the Son, who have exalted bodies of flesh and bone as tangible as man’s, The Holy Ghost is a personage of spirit. In a revelation given to Joseph Smith which we know today as Section 130 of the Doctrine & Covenants, we learn that “were it not so the Holy Ghost could not dwell in us” (Doctrine & Covenants 130:22), as Christ promised that He would. We thereby can receive personal revelation in our heart and mind from the Holy Ghost, such that it is a more effectual witness to us than what we can gain merely through our physical senses.
How does one receive the Gift of the Holy Ghost?
In ancient scripture we read about instances where the Holy Ghost was sent to those who kept God’s commandments, His prophets, His chosen servants, and true followers of His Son, Jesus Christ in various ways. There is also biblical evidence that suggests that in Christ’s established church in New Testament times that the Gift of the Holy Ghost was received through an ordinance by the laying on of hands, by those who were who were called to and given the authority of the priesthood. It is also evident that this ordinance was performed in conjunction with the ordinance and covenant of baptism.
This has been confirmed today in the restored Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints through revelation to the prophet Joseph Smith:
And to confirm those who are baptized into the church, by the laying on of hands for the baptism of fire and the Holy Ghost, according to the scriptures; (Doctrine & Covenants 20:41)
And I will lay my hand upon you …, and you shall receive my Spirit, the Holy Ghost, even the Comforter, which shall teach you the peaceable things of the kingdom; (Doctrine & Covenants 36:2)
In this ordinance one is given the charge, “Receive the Holy Ghost”. This is because the presence of the Holy Ghost in our lives is a choice, and conditional upon our personal righteousness and obedience, for we know that “the Spirit of the Lord doth not dwell in unholy temples” (Helaman 4:24).
From the sacramental prayers we learn that as we renew the covenants made at baptism through that ordinance, we have the promise to always have His Spirit to be with us as we always retain a remembrance of Christ.
How do I discern the Holy Ghost among other thoughts or feelings?
The ability to discern and listen to the Holy Ghost requires diligence and effort.
It is often difficult for us to listen and obey the promptings of the Holy Ghost. Why? I can think of a couple reasons for why this is for me, personally.
First, it sometimes seems nonsensical or humiliating, in a way, to obey simple promptings. In this regard, I try to remember the words of Paul
…the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men. (1 Corinthians 1:25)
But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. (1 Corinthians 2:14)
It is better for us to fear God than to fear man.
Jesus also taught Nicodemus about being born of the Spirit:
The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit. (John 3:8)
We may not know the reason for the promptings we receive, or where the Spirit is leading us, but one thing we can know of a surety is that if we simply choose to take heed to the Spirit, we will be shown all things which we must do, and likely help others to do the same. As we obey the promptings we receive, the Holy Ghost will sanctify our hearts and this help us become holy and like unto God; knowing good from evil, but having no desire to do evil, only good continually.
Second, we doubt that promptings are from the Spirit, and are our own thoughts.
In the New Testament, Paul tells us about what he calls the fruit of the Holy Ghost:
…the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance (Galatians 5:22-23)
Just like any other talent or skill, it takes practice and experience to improve our ability to recognize the Holy Ghost in our every-day lives. I view the receiving of the Gift of the Holy Ghost in the same light as the three servants receiving the talents from their lord in the parable taught by the Savior.
According to that parable we are expected to use the gifts and talents we receive to build the Lord’s kingdom, and to magnify or increase that which He has given us. If we don’t use the Gift of the Holy Ghost, or in other words, if we do not heed his promptings, are we not like unto the servant who buried his talent in the earth, and who eventually lost even that which he had? On the other hand, if we listen and obey the promptings and personal commandments we receive by way of the Spirit, we receive more; more promptings, more spiritual strength to overcome evil, more hidden treasures of knowledge, more sanctification or change of heart, more peace; and thus we build the kingdom of God, and He builds us.
Moroni, in the Book of Mormon teaches us that anything that leads us to do good, or believe in Christ is from God:
Wherefore, all things which are good cometh of God; and that which is evil cometh of the devil; for the devil is an enemy unto God, and fighteth against him continually, and inviteth and enticeth to sin, and to do that which is evil continually.
But behold, that which is of God inviteth and enticeth to do good continually; wherefore, every thing which inviteth and enticeth to do good, and to love God, and to serve him, is inspired of God. (Moroni 7:12-13)
So, any good thought or good desire is inspired of God, and has the possibility of being or coming from the Spirit. Really, the only way to be sure is to act on that thought or feeling, for we receive the witness after the trial of our faith. That is the pattern.